Monday, February 09, 2009

Something to Think About

Yesterday, like many others across the country, our pastor talked about the importance of loving one another. Of course, it is the greatest command and this Saturday happens to be Valentine's day, so it's no shock that we would find such a message at church. Like you, I have heard many a sermon on the subject of love but few have captured my attention like the one I experienced yesterday. I want to share a little piece of that experience with you.

The bulk of the sermon was what you would expect, speaking of Christ's love for us and God's call for us to love Him and to love one another. But it was the last part of the sermon that grabbed and kept my attention. Here's the back story that Stephen (our pastor) shared.

Gainesville State players douse head coach Mark Williams in celebration. They played the oddest game in high school football history last month down in Grapevine, Texas. It was Grapevine Faith vs. Gainesville State School and everything about it was upside down. For instance, when Gainesville came out to take the field, the Faith fans made a 40-yard spirit line for them to run through. Did you hear that? The other team’s fans? They even made a banner for players to crash through at the end. It said, “Go Tornadoes!” Which is also weird, because Faith is the Lions.

It was rivers running uphill and cats petting dogs. More than 200 Faith fans sat on the Gainesville side and kept cheering the Gainesville players on by name. “I never in my life thought I’d hear people cheering for us to hit their kids,” recalls Gainesville ‘s QB and middle linebacker, Isaiah. “I wouldn’t expect another parent to tell somebody to hit their kids. But they wanted us to!”

And even though Faith walloped them 33-14, the Gainesville kids were so happy that after the game they gave head coach Mark Williams a sideline squirt-bottle shower like he’d just won state. Gotta be the first Gatorade bath in history for an 0-9 coach.

But then you saw the 12 uniformed officers escorting the 14 Gainesville players off the field and two and two started to make four. They lined the players up in groups of five handcuffs ready in their back pockets and marched them to the team bus. That’s because Gainesville is a maximum-security correctional facility 75 miles north of Dallas . Every game it plays is on the road.

This all started when Faith’s head coach, Kris Hogan, wanted to do something kind for the Gainesville team. Faith had never played Gainesville , but he already knew the score. After all, Faith was 7-2 going into the game, Gainesville 0-8 with 2 TDs all year. Faith has 70 kids, 11 coaches, the latest equipment and involved parents. Gainesville has a lot of kids with convictions for drugs, assault and robbery many of whose families had disowned them wearing seven-year-old shoulder pads and ancient helmets.

So Hogan had this idea. What if half of our fans for one night only cheered for the other team? He sent out an email asking the Faithful to do just that. “Here’s the message I want you to send:” Hogan wrote.

“You are just as valuable as any other person on planet Earth.” Some people were naturally confused. One Faith player walked into Hogan’s office and asked, “Coach, why are we doing this?” And Hogan said, “Imagine if you didn’t have a home life. Imagine if everybody had pretty much given up on you. Now imagine what it would mean for hundreds of people to suddenly believe in you.”

Next thing you know, the Gainesville Tornadoes were turning around on their bench to see something they never had before. Hundreds of fans. And actual cheerleaders!

“I thought maybe they were confused,” said Alex, a Gainesville lineman (only first names are released by the prison). “They started yelling ‘DEE-fense!’ when their team had the ball. I said, ‘What? Why they cheerin’ for us?’”

It was a strange experience for boys who most people cross the street to avoid. “We can tell people are a little afraid of us when we come to the games,” says Gerald, a lineman who will wind up doing more than three years. “You can see it in their eyes. They’re lookin’ at us like we’re criminals. But these people, they were yellin’ for us! By our names!”

Maybe it figures that Gainesville played better than it had all season, scoring the game’s last two touchdowns. Of course, this might be because Hogan put his third-string nose guard at safety and his third-string cornerback at defensive end. Still.

After the game, both teams gathered in the middle of the field to pray and that’s when Isaiah surprised everybody by asking to lead. “We had no idea what the kid was going to say,” remembers Coach Hogan. But Isaiah said this: “Lord, I don’t know how this happened, so I don’t know how to say thank You, but I never would’ve known there was so many people in the world that cared about us.” And it was a good thing everybody’s heads were bowed because they might’ve seen Hogan wiping away tears.

As the Tornadoes walked back to their bus under guard, they each were handed a bag for the ride home a burger, some fries, a soda, some candy, a Bible and an encouraging letter from a Faith player. The Gainesville coach saw Hogan, grabbed him hard by the shoulders and said, “You’ll never know what your people did for these kids tonight. You’ll never, ever know.

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For me, our Pastor's words hit the mark. How many people have I left behind? Given up on because their mistakes were too many, too great, too painful, too taboo, too embarrassing, too public for me to forgive or accept. How many? Who have I written off as a lost cause because I simply got tired of trying?
Until yesterday, I'm not sure it really resonated with me exactly what it must be like to be genuinely hopeless. Totally alone. Fortunately, I came to know Christ early in my life, long before the stresses and trials of adulthood, so even in the midst of adolescence and its turmoil, I had a deeper sense of peace. On top of that I have a family who has never turned it's back on me and who has always been there to love and support me. Without them, where would I be? Who is to say I would not have made the same choices those boys at Gainesville made? Who knows?
So the sermon brought to my attention that people are not so complicated after all. We all have basic needs and love is one of them. It is true, some of those boys may continue on in criminal activity for life. But maybe, just maybe, one of them won't. The upside? It's not our job to see to it that they are rehabilitated. We can't force 'heart' changes on anyone. God simply calls us to love them....period. In spite of and because of who they are, because they are important to God. Results are not our department. We simply have to follow the greatest commandment and then the rest is out of our hands.
Here's to the lost causes. God doesn't quit on them, and hopefully neither will we.

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